Happy Dance! TER is BACK!
The formal name is "The Erotic Review" (TER). Okay, technically they were never totally gone, but now can be accessed from the U.S. without going through a VPN. Why do I love this site so much, you ask? Because it verifies the hobbyists and via their reviews, providers are reviewed as well. Great win for both sides. Safer, consistent, etc. I'm still on their under my old name, "Lauren" and have a 7.79 score. I would prefer an "A", but given my age, I'll take it! Here's the link: